10 Tips to Survive a Long Distance Relationship

Long distance relationships… Even the word is enough to get you stressed out? Please relax, here are just a few tips to help you put things into perspective and get prepared for this new challenge!

1. Dump your boyfriend/girlfriend before going abroad

Just kidding! This post is serious (or not).

2. Call your significant other everyday, at least twice a day

Our housemate is doing that, it seems to work just fine! Always locked in his room, talking on the phone, we can’t remember the last I saw him though.

3. Plan video chats regularly

Nothing is better than seeing each other on camera! Oh yes, actually being together in real life…

4. Take something with you that will remind you of your boyfriend/girlfriend when you miss him/her

A sweater, a picture, a present he/she gave you, a few locks of hair, an underwear… It could be anything, no judgement between us.

5. Send good morning and good night texts everyday

Yes, even if you don’t have the same time zone.

6. Avoid any dangerous situations

Do not go to the club. Do not go to the bar. Do not go to house parties. Stay home, stay safe.

7. Be creative

Calling is so mainstream… The distance doesn’t have to stop you from planning fun and out of the box things, innovation and creativity are keys to success. We know you can do it!

8. Do things together

Walk to campus together, watch a movie together, cook together… Through video chat.

9. Manage expectations and set boundaries

One should not treat others in ways that one would not like to be treated…

10. Stay positive

Never give up on your relationship, because when you will finally get to hold your significant other in your arm again, all you went through will be worth it. We promise!

PS: We actually have never been in a long distance relationship… If our tips are working, please let us know ;)

Buuuuut... There is hope! A lot of hope! Check out this story that our friends shared over on Human Crossing! This couple has shown that a long distance relationship can work!